What happened between The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 couple Haley and Pilar at the reunion?

Netflix premiered the much-awaited reunion for The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 on July 2, 2025. It was filmed a year after the show's finale took place. During the reunion, participants shared their relationship updates.

As fans saw on the reality show, six couples participated in the second season. One of them was Haley and Pilar. They revealed that they were still together and engaged. The two shared how they have been planning their wedding and also started working on the guest list.

Fellow cast members, including AJ and Magan, also joined the conversation and talked to Haley and Pilar.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 reunion: Haley and Pilar are still engaged and together

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 host JoAnna Garcia Swisher noticed that Haley and Pilar were wearing rings. She asked the couple to share an update on their relationship.

"It's been really good. I told Pilar once we left...She was dying to get a ring on her finger also. And so I told her within the next year, I would make sure that I made it a priority to get down on one knee. And I did it less than a month later."

JoAnna asked about their wedding and whether they had a date in mind. Haley responded that even though they had started the preparations, they didn't have the date yet. She mentioned wanting to "elope" for their wedding.

Haley also talked about having security and being safe whenever they would go.

"And that just kind of comes down to, like, the place and the world that we're living in right now. Um...I just kind of can't wait to have that kind of security. Wherever we go, hopefully, I guess not everywhere, but you and your partner are safe."

Adding more about their wedding planning, The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 star Pilar mentioned they had started working on the guest list. However, when they got "stressed," they put a "pause" on that.

Listening to Haley and Pilar's wedding planning and guest list, fellow participant AJ commented:

"I better be on it."

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 couple laughed and said she was definitely on the guest list.

Further, JoAnna asked Pilar how she has been a person for whom "family" has been a big thing. She asked if Pilar was able to share the engagement news with her family.

Pilar shared the news with her family, but she said it was "definitely hard" for her. Despite not knowing what their wedding would look like, Pilar said that she was "so free" and "happy" for the first time. Listening to Pilar sharing her thoughts and how she struggled with her family members, fellow participant Magan joined the conversation.

"I totally understand where you're coming from with your family."

The Ultimatum: Queer Love star Magan shared that despite her family "coming around" now, it took "so many years" for that to happen. She confessed that it was a "push and pull" situation for years.

Stay tuned for more updates.